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		<title>Quick Glance at Adjourning</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Jun 2010 00:51:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Quick Glance at Performing</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Jun 2010 00:45:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Quick Glance at Norming</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Jun 2010 00:41:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Quick Glance at Storming 2 &#8211; Conflict</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Jun 2010 00:36:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Quick Glance at Storming 1 &#8211; Differences</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Jun 2010 22:47:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Quick Glance at Forming</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Jun 2010 22:43:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Future Plan For Blog</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2009 17:24:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sharon Mulgrew</dc:creator>
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				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-size: small;">There are many books and articles for group leaders and facilitators. There appear to be none specifically for group members, in my mind the most crucial part of the group. And, while there are several on developmental stages, most are incomplete, and more importantly fail to address themselves to positive member behaviors.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: small;">This is a blog to teach members of any group how to make it better &#8230; more productive, more satisfying, more collaborative, more fun. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: small;">It actually helps if you understand the purpose of each developmental phase in a group, identify and make the contributions that will help the group move through each stage effectively, even if it means going back and picking up a piece that was missed but is still causing problems in a group.  Only then can you achieve the critical result necessary to the group&#8217;s success, and avoid those moments of total OMG. &#8221;Did we really meet for 20 weeks and just now get clear that half the group is convinced we are responsible for a completely different task than the other half ??!!&#8221; So rather than disconnected behaviors, these behaviors will be suggested in context.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: small;">How will we do this? </span><span id="more-19"></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: small;">THE PLAN We will trace </span><a href="http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_qa3954/is_200104/ai_n8943663/"><span style="font-size: small;">Tuckman’s </span></a><span style="font-size: small;">work on Forming, Storming, Norming, Performing and how amazingly ubiquitous it still is. Often people use the terms with no real understanding of what they mean. On the other hand, many consulting groups and researchers have continued to develop this information in quite creative ways.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: small;">I identified the main purpose for each of these stages, the critical result to be achieved, and tasks that help group members execute the purpose and achieve the critical result. It helps to know this. I will share these with you. Look for them under their category &#8211; Forming purpose/tasks/critical result under Forming, etc&#8230;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: small;"> Knowing what you are doing, and enacting specific behaviors to accomplish key stage tasks decreases unnecessary drama and increases quality, comfort, fun, and creativity. This in turn, helps everyone contribute to a competent work group, here defined as one that uses valuable member task and relationship skills to work together effectively. So, each time I talk about a useful behavior (there are so many!) I will  identify where and why it is most likely to move group members, and even group leaders, forward.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: small;">I will use small case studies to make it real. I will present specific groups, articles, interviews and how groups and individuals have grappled with different developmental challenges.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: small;">BACKGROUND: Some background basics to provide context. First, why Tuckman? Tuckman himself, said his findings were not a new theory, but a categorization that emerged in his review of group development literature in the field in the early ‘60s. He found, as he reviewed over 100 group articles/books, that consistent types of developmental stages appeared in many authors’ work. Yet,  all were named differently,</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: small;">From his understanding of the similarities, he coined the terms Forming, Storming, Norming &amp; Performing. And, they have stuck, though as stated, many people who use them don’t actually understand what they mean. Tuckman was straight forward, practical; his categorization is reasonable and useful. He expected that once offered, others would comment, add, and in fact that has occurred.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: small;">Others have added Adjourning or Closing as a stage. So, we will include that stage as well.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: small;">And I, tired of the misuse of the Storming term, and the heightened drama that it insisted on, divided the Storming phase into 2 sections, the 1st where group members need to differentiate among each other, see and accept each other as individuals, and the 2nd where they need to develop a method for handling disagreements. One can see how the 1st step creates the structure for managing disagreements and conflict. The group really needs to ‘get’ that each member is different and brings different skills, different viewpoints, different contributions all around. If not, then it is difficult to have conflicts without seeing yourself as the injured party and the rest of the group as dysfunctional. More on that in the future.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: small;">I have not been able to think of another way to coin the two phases of Storming, so they are Storming &#8211; Individuation, and Storming  &#8211; Conflict,  a reflection of how I understand them. Both sections have to do with differentiation, just different aspects of it. If anyone has a good naming idea, which would fit with Tuckman’s genre, I would be interested in hearing it. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: small;">So, I will be working through 6 stages: Forming, Storming  &#8211; Individuation, Storming &#8211; Conflict, Norming, Performing, Adjourning.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: small;">I originally defined the purpose of each stage based on Tuckman’s articles (1965 &amp; with Jensen, 1975), and the work of Don Brown, MD, (unpublished article, 1987). I then added the Individuation Stage to Storming, included teh Closing stage, identified the purpose for each stage, the key member &amp; leader behaviors that made each stage happen, and the critical result that the group has to reach in each stage before they could authentically move on to the next stage. It is not that groups can not move through the developmental process without accomplishing these critical results, it is more that the group limps along, different parts of the group are working on different understandings,  or the work is done by a few rather than the group as a whole.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: small;">COPYRIGHT with a generous bend: I developed a workshop based on this for a Gas &amp; Electric Company, but retained the rights, which I copyrighted in 1991. When I redesigned this interactive workbook for Masters&#8217; classes at the University of San Francisco, and then at John F Kennedy University, both in the Bay Area, it was given to students to use in anyway they wanted, hopefully attributing me. I taught  over 110 students how to analyze and improve their chosen work group by focusing this framework one developmental stage at a time, regardless of where the group was in its process. Many of the diagnoses and changes students made in their own work groups have been stunning, and have led to promotions, or at least better working groups and mores satisfied members. Many left with a confidence that they could walk into any group and do the same. It has pushed me to share this with more of you.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: small;">So, that’s the background and the plan. Let me know what you think. Sharon</span></p>
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		<title>Overview of Plays Well with Others</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2009 16:51:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sharon Mulgrew</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Increase Your Effectiveness in Any Group “Computer skills are expected on a resume; they are no longer a bonus; they are now considered necessary basic skills. However the skill of the future, the most sought after skill now, is the ability to work in a team, to work collaboratively, to play well others.”  (Kate Austin, Director [...]]]></description>
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<h2><span style="font-size: small;">Increase Your Effectiveness in Any Group</span></h2>
<div><span style="font-size: small;">“Computer skills are expected on a resume; they are no longer a bonus; they are now considered necessary basic skills. However the skill of the future, the most sought after skill now, is the ability to work in a team, to work collaboratively, to play well others.”  (Kate Austin, Director of Simulation and Digital Entertainment Program at UB, 2006)</span></div>
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<div><span style="font-size: small;">We sit through such boring or frustrating or ‘resultless’ work meetings every day.</span></div>
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<div><span style="font-size: small;">We think that nothing can be done, and even if it could, we look to others to do the ‘something’ that will change it. Yet, there are actions that effective group members can take to influence groups we are in to become more directed, more fun, more effective. How do we identify and learn them?</span></div>
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<div><span style="font-size: small;">Just a note here that while teams are a smaller division of the term groups; they get all the attention and all the applause. Work groups of any kind are able to produce collaborative synergy and satisfaction, with reasonable attention. This last sentence, while true, will horrify team aficionados who have committed their life to the difference. However, we must get over it. We want to see all members become more effective in all types of groups. Simply to make our group lives, our meeting lives, more livable. So, we will use the broader term Groups in this blog.</span></div>
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<div><span style="font-size: small;">Most of us see work groups as working or not, based solely on some form of luck or the impact of a specific leader.</span></div>
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<div><span style="font-size: small;">There is a rhyme and reason to effective work groups, and dysfunction, when present, can be observed and repaired. This shapes our more optimistic view of group work. We know now that the more members know, and practice the types of behaviors that actually help any group perform, the better the group experience is, not only for them but also for others. Anything that decreases our stress, and increases our generosity toward others is more than worth the effort.</span></div>
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<div><span style="font-size: small;">Most groups do not do consistent collaborative work unless they pass through specific developmental stages and accomplish stage specific tasks. And it is possible, interesting, and easy to understand these stages, and not just throw around the terms. </span></div>
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<div><span style="font-size: small;">Unfortunately, we can not look to most group development theories for help; they are not particularly positive. They portray members, that&#8217;s you, as initially whiny, passive, helpless, and/or aggressive ‘children’.</span></div>
<p><span style="font-size: small;"> We know now that groups perform collaborative work when all members are engaged in relevant ways. That is, they know what actions to take at what time in the group’s development ..  a broader form of ‘time and place’.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: small;">Coordinated effort and shared purpose do occur when all group members have developed specific and effective ways of working with each other and on the task. When we believe this, we can begin to think that something might be done systematically to enhance any group’s development. In addition, we can begin to identify and explain the specific actions and behaviors that members can use to get it all going, and keep it focused, on track, results oriented, and fun.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: small;">When specific tasks and accomplishments are understood and applied, the time it takes to learn these is more than made up for in eventual group productivity and member satisfaction. And, this blog is based on this belief that there is a more effective way of growing a group than the spontaneous “whatever” we most often find ourselves in.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: small;">Mostly, we emphasize that members themselves contribute to the development of the group’s work, and that it’s not up to the organization or the leadership to provide the only direction, since often they are “starting off on the back foot” as well.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: small;">I hope this blog will enhance your capacity to think more quickly, to identify &#8216;time &amp; place&#8221; and relevant action, and to help in small relevant bites.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: small;">I also hope this blog will improve your competence in work groups to the extent that it contributes to your personal and professional growth, your group/work satisfaction, and the satisfaction of your colleagues.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: small;">Let me know your thoughts and questions about being an effective group member.  Thanks, Sharon</span></p>
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